It's hard to co-parent with your abuser. We built a safer way.
For parents navigating high-conflict co-parenting situations, CoParent Safe Harbor provides court-admissible documentation and protected communication tools that reduce conflict while maintaining focus on your children's needs.
Court-admissible communication with metadata verification that protects you from false claims
Monitored messaging with professional mediators to prevent harassment and escalation
Comprehensive documentation system that automatically identifies concerning patterns
When Co-Parenting Becomes a Battleground
The traditional advice to "just get along" doesn't work when you're dealing with a high-conflict situation.
"I'm personally ready for my last to be 18 so I can completely block her father, because I will never be friends with him, but I'll always do what is needed for my kids I have with him."
You're exhausted from walking on eggshells, carefully analyzing every word in every message, afraid it will be twisted and used against you. Your communications about simple logistics turn into accusations, and you dread every custody exchange and decision that requires input from both parents.
"What hurts the most is how much my daughter dreads going there. She has full emotional breakdowns leading up to transitions, panicking about being dropped off."
Your child is caught in the middle, experiencing anxiety and confusion from the conflict. You see the emotional toll it takes as they struggle with transitions, but you feel powerless to create the stability they need when communication between homes is fraught with tension.
"It is sad, but I am a firm believer that you don't wrestle with crazy."
Traditional co-parenting advice feels impossible to implement. You've tried being "friendly" and "cooperative," but it only leads to more manipulation and stress. Court processes are expensive and slow, and generic communication tools weren't built for high-conflict situations.
The Hard Truth
"I know not everyone can do this, but if you even think there's a chance, then try your hardest because your kids are watching and learning."
The reality is that not all co-parenting relationships can or should look the same. When you're dealing with a high-conflict ex, traditional advice to "just get along" can actually put you and your children at risk. You deserve tools specifically designed for your situation.
Imagine Co-Parenting with Boundaries, Safety, and Peace of Mind
A better way is possible with the right tools and support.
Documentation & Protection
Every communication is automatically documented, organized, and admissible in court if needed. No more frantically searching through text messages or emails to prove what was really said. When false accusations arise, you have a verified record of facts at your fingertips.
Smoother Transitions
Your child notices the difference. Transitions become smoother because logistics are clearly communicated and conflicts stay off their radar. They begin to feel secure in both homes because the toxic tension has been contained to a platform designed to manage it.
Reclaim Your Energy
You regain hours of mental energy previously spent on managing conflict, documenting issues, and worrying about the next interaction. That energy can now go toward being fully present with your child and rebuilding your own life.
A New Paradigm
Co-parenting with a high-conflict ex doesn't have to mean either constant battle or complete surrender. There's a third option: a structured communication system with built-in protections that keeps focus on the children while maintaining your boundaries and sanity.
The First Communication Platform Designed for High-Conflict Co-Parenting
CoParent Safe Harbor is the first communication platform specifically designed for high-conflict co-parenting situations, built with input from family court judges, therapists, and parents who've lived through the struggle.
Protected Communication
Create a secure account and invite your co-parent to join. All messages are automatically documented with metadata verification, tone checking, and optional mediator review to prevent harassment.
Streamlined Information Sharing
Share important information about your children through structured templates that reduce conflict triggers and keep focus on facts rather than emotions.
Documentation & Evidence Collection
The system automatically organizes and timestamps all communications, identifies concerning patterns, and generates court-admissible reports when needed.
Your children deserve parents who can communicate effectively about their needs, and you deserve to do that without sacrificing your wellbeing.
"After years of dreading every exchange and message, CoParent Safe Harbor has given me back my peace of mind. The mediator review option alone has prevented countless escalations."
Michael K.
Co-parent of 2
"My ex used to twist every word I wrote. Having a verified record of our actual communications has completely changed our dynamic."
Teresa L.
Co-parent of 1
"My daughter's therapist noticed the difference in her anxiety levels within weeks of us starting to use Safe Harbor. That alone was worth every penny."
James W.
Co-parent of 3
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about CoParent Safe Harbor.
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